This is a strangely-written story. It doesn't make a bit of sense for a while. A highly honorable man goes on a senseless shooting rampage? Then you have the "ah-hah!" moment.
Aug 29 07:40 PM US/Eastern
A US army captain gunned down his ex-wife, mother-in-law and two other people in a shooting spree during Hurricane Irene before he turned the gun on himself, a justice official told AFP on Monday.
Captain Leonard Egland, who is understood to have served in Afghanistan and Iraq, started his rampage on Saturday evening right in the middle of the storm and ended it after a shootout with SWAT teams shortly before dawn Sunday.
Buckingham County district attorney David Heckler said it appeared that Egland committed a triple homicide in Virginia before crossing state lines and killing his estranged wife's mother, following a recent child custody row.
The soldier, 37, had been the target of a manhunt after the shooting deaths of his 36-year-old former wife, her boyfriend and her boyfriend's son at a house in Chesterfield, Virginia, as Irene swept up the east coast.
He apparently killed them before driving north into Pennsylvania with his young daughter and gunning down his ex-wife's mother, Heckler said.
Police had been alerted after Egland entered a hospital and left a note asking medics to check on his daughter's health but he pulled out a gun and fled in his car when a member of staff confronted him about the youngster.
"He left a note referring to his mother in law. We believe he shot her in the head," said Heckler, noting that police tracked down the car, leading to a pursuit and shootout with SWAT marksmen.
"He had a semi-automatic rifle and fired around 10 shots at police vehicles," injuring one officer, the district attorney added. Egland was later found dead in nearby woodland.
"From what we have been told there was a legal visitation order involving the child that had allowed Mr Egland take his daughter to California for one week," Heckler said, referring to the soldier's tours of warzones.
"But the ex-wife threatened legal action after the daughter returned from the visit one week late," he added.
A police pursuit eventually saw Egland pinned down near a gas station. "We have every indication that he died from a self-inflicted gun wound. Everything is consistent with that," Heckler said.
The dead soldier's daughter, aged six or seven according to media reports, is in protective custody, authorities said.
Justice officials in Virginia were unavailable for comment on Monday. FULL STORY
I just can't leave this story alone. This is a complete tragedy.
I was married to one of these nasty wenches once. I am thinking, always thinking of the Kristin Ruggiero story and how COMMON and USUAL the story really is.
Monday, August 29, 2011
JurisDictionary- Getting the Evidence - Part One ...
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Getting the Evidence - Part One ...
Evidence is the "stuff"
you need to prove your case.But, how do you find it?
That's the fun part!
In this mid-week Tips & Tactics I give you a few tips how to use interrogatories to find evidence to win your case. There's a lot more to it than I can tell you in a few Tips & Tactics, of course, so get the complete picture with my case-winning, affordable, amazingly popular, 4-CD, step-by-step, 24-hour official Jurisdictionary course that everyone is talking about!
Interrogatories are simply written questions that your opponent must answer under oath!
USE THEM WISELY!
USE THEM SPARINGLY!
THEY ARE POWERFUL TOOLS TO FIND EVIDENCE!
But, you only have a limited number to use.
Rule 33 Federal Rules of Civil Procedure states, "Unless otherwise stipulated or ordered by the court, a party may serve on any other party no more than 25 written interrogatories, including all discrete subparts."
State rules may allow more or less, but most courts put some limit on the number of interrogatories you can use.
So, use them sparingly and wisely - but USE them!
The first interrogatory I serve on opponents reads like this, "Identify all persons having first-hand knowledge of any material fact alleged in the pleadings of this case and, with regard to each such person, state what they know about each such fact and how they came to know it."
The other side will have a fit!
They will respond, "Objection, overbroad, burdensome, not calculated to lead to admissible evidence, seeks to inquire into attorney-client privilege," etc., etc., etc.
Immediately file a "Motion for Better Answers to Interrogatories" and set your motion for hearing!
You are entitled to evidence disclosure! In fact, Rule 26 Federal Rules of Civil Procedure requires such disclosure, as do the state courts. So, don't be hoodwinked by your own lack of knowledge about rules and what they require of opponents.
And, don't be fooled by the all-too-common objection, "The facts sought are not admissible at trial."
They don't have to be admissible at trial!
Rules of evidence discovery are different from rules that control at trial.
Rule 26(b) Federal Rules of Civil Procedure provides, "Parties may obtain discovery regarding any nonprivileged matter that is relevant to any party's claim or defense -- including the existence, description, nature, custody, condition, and location of any documents or other tangible things and the identity and location of persons who know of any discoverable matter. For good cause, the court may order discovery of any matter relevant to the subject matter involved in the action. Relevant information need not be admissible at the trial if the discovery appears reasonably calculated to lead to the discovery of admissible evidence."
State rules generally follow the federal rule.
What you seek with interrogatories (and all your other five discovery tools I explain fully in my case-winning, affordable, amazingly popular, 4-CD, step-by-step, 24-hour official Jurisdictionary course that everyone is talking about) need not be admissible at trial, so long as the facts you seek are "reasonably calculated to lead to the discovery of admissible evidence".
Don't let lawyers trick you!
You have an unquestioned right to find evidence that will help you prove your case.
Evidence + Legal Authority = Victory in Court!
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- Most pro se people don't understand what facts are critical to winning a case and what facts are of no consequence but only muddy the waters with court-confusing insignificance.
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AGENDA: GRINDING AMERICA DOWN
AGENDA: GRINDING AMERICA DOWN - (DVD)
Winner of the Jubilee Grand Prize at the San Antonio Independent Christian Film Festival!
Product Description
When Idaho Legislator Curtis Bowers wrote a "letter to the editor" about the drastic changes in America's culture, it became the feature story on the evening news, people protested at the Capitol, and for weeks the local newspapers were filled with responses. He realized then... he'd hit on something. Ask almost anyone and you'll hear, "Communism is dead! The Berlin Wall came down." Though the word communism isn't used anymore, this film will show the ideas behind it are alive and well. Join Bowers for a fascinating look at the people and groups that have successfully targeted America's morality and freedom in their effort to grind America down. It's a well documented AGENDA.
FULL STORY
Winner of the Jubilee Grand Prize at the San Antonio Independent Christian Film Festival!
Product Description
When Idaho Legislator Curtis Bowers wrote a "letter to the editor" about the drastic changes in America's culture, it became the feature story on the evening news, people protested at the Capitol, and for weeks the local newspapers were filled with responses. He realized then... he'd hit on something. Ask almost anyone and you'll hear, "Communism is dead! The Berlin Wall came down." Though the word communism isn't used anymore, this film will show the ideas behind it are alive and well. Join Bowers for a fascinating look at the people and groups that have successfully targeted America's morality and freedom in their effort to grind America down. It's a well documented AGENDA.
FULL STORY
Founders Quotes
"They are not to do anything they please to provide for the general welfare, but only to lay taxes for that purpose. To consider the latter phrase not as describing the purpose of the first, but as giving a distinct and independent power to do any act they please which may be good for the Union, would render all the preceding and subsequent enumerations of power completely useless. It would reduce the whole instrument to a single phrase, that of instituting a Congress with power to do whatever would be for the good of the United States; and as they would be the sole judges of the good or evil, it would be also a power to do whatever evil they please." --Thomas Jefferson, Opinion on National Bank, 1791
Which is exactly what has happened.
Sunday, August 28, 2011
American Minute
At the Civil Rights March in Washington, D.C., AUGUST 28, 1963, Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr., stated:
"I have a dream...where little black boys and black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and white girls and walk together as sisters and brothers.
I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight, and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed, and all flesh shall see it together."
Martin Luther King continued:
"This will be the day when all of God's children will be able to sing with new meaning,
'My country 'tis of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing.
Land where my fathers died, land of the Pilgrims' pride,
from every mountainside, let freedom ring.'"
Martin Luther King concluded:
"When we let freedom ring, when we let it ring from every village and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God's children, black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual,
'Free at last! Free at last! Thank God Almighty, we are free at last!'"
American Minute is a registered trademark. Permission granted to reproduce with acknowledgement to www.AmericanMinute.com, P.O. Box 20163, St. Louis, MO 63123, 314-487-4395, wjfederer@gmail.com
~By the way~
Martin Luther King was a Republican
The BIG QUESTION
August 27, 2011
 How can we ensure every child has an equal opportunity for healthy growth and development?" |
Saturday, August 27, 2011
American Minute
"In the name of the most holy and undivided Trinity."
Thus began the Treaty of Paris which ended the Revolutionary War.
The Treaty continued:
"It having pleased the Divine Providence to dispose the hearts of the most serene and most potent Prince George the Third...and of the United States of America, to forget all past misunderstandings and differences...
Done at Paris, this THIRD DAY of SEPTEMBER, in the year of our Lord one thousand seven hundred and eighty-three."
The Treaty was signed by Benjamin Franklin, John Adams, who later became the 2nd President, and John Jay, the first Chief Justice.
On January 27, 1983, declaring a National Day of Prayer, President Ronald Reagan stated:
"Prayer is the mainspring of the American spirit, a fundamental tenet of our people since before the Republic was founded.
A year before the Declaration of Independence, in 1775, the Continental Congress proclaimed the first National Day of Prayer as the initial positive action they asked of every colonist."
Reagan concluded:
"Two hundred years ago in 1783, the Treaty of Paris officially ended the long, weary Revolutionary War during which a National Day of Prayer had been proclaimed every spring for eight years."
American Minute is a registered trademark. Permission granted to reproduce with acknowledgement to www.AmericanMinute.com, P.O. Box 20163, St. Louis, MO 63123, 314-487-4395, wjfederer@gmail.com
Foster Parents; Breaking News, Connecticut parents & CPS.
Marilyn Harrison, Foster Families Examiner
August 27, 2011
Foster Parents; Breaking News-
Connecticut Parents & CPS.
Breaking news; We may have given a hand up, so to speak by an innovative state that has obviously listened to the people, a novel approach.
One of the biggest problems, we as parents experience with Child Protective Services is that the people who work for this organization have no rules, no accountability, they are under the impression that they are above the Constitution, means nothing to them.
Connecticut, has pioneered to pass new ones, with the recent action is stating clearly that they disagree with CPS tactics.
.....Allow us to explain what has taken place, Connecticut just passed a law that says CPS will present a written copy of Connecticut Constitutional rights prior to entering the homes, according to this article this new law goes into effect on Oct. 1st, 2011. FULL STORY
August 27, 2011
Foster Parents; Breaking News-
Connecticut Parents & CPS.
Breaking news; We may have given a hand up, so to speak by an innovative state that has obviously listened to the people, a novel approach.
One of the biggest problems, we as parents experience with Child Protective Services is that the people who work for this organization have no rules, no accountability, they are under the impression that they are above the Constitution, means nothing to them.
Connecticut, has pioneered to pass new ones, with the recent action is stating clearly that they disagree with CPS tactics.
.....Allow us to explain what has taken place, Connecticut just passed a law that says CPS will present a written copy of Connecticut Constitutional rights prior to entering the homes, according to this article this new law goes into effect on Oct. 1st, 2011. FULL STORY
365 Ways to Drive a Liberal Crazy
Human Events
No. 239 of 365
Pick a fight with a liberal on: SOCIAL STIGMA. Liberals are forever congratulating themselves on having all but eliminated the "stifling" codes of disapproval by which the pre-1960s generations dictated socially acceptable norms. But "stigma" was good. While stigma existed, poor people were too proud to beg or rely on welfare; girls were too ashamed to be thought "loose" or to seek single motherhood as a lifestyle choice; men were more chivalrous because there was a stigma against treating women without deference and special consideration; and people were more polite and even dressed properly as a sign of respect for others and themselves. "Stigma" was the means by which free citizens could agree on a mutually satisfactory code of behavior, without the agents of the state having to poke their noses into anyone's private business. Liberals, however, utterly reverse the equation—they're all for obliterating taboos, knocking down stigmas, shocking the middle class, and preaching tolerance for the most anti-social behavior; and then they turn around and act as the biggest advocates of the government dictating private behavior with the nanny state. The consequences? Greater government intrusion; much worse behavior.
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No. 239 of 365
Pick a fight with a liberal on: SOCIAL STIGMA. Liberals are forever congratulating themselves on having all but eliminated the "stifling" codes of disapproval by which the pre-1960s generations dictated socially acceptable norms. But "stigma" was good. While stigma existed, poor people were too proud to beg or rely on welfare; girls were too ashamed to be thought "loose" or to seek single motherhood as a lifestyle choice; men were more chivalrous because there was a stigma against treating women without deference and special consideration; and people were more polite and even dressed properly as a sign of respect for others and themselves. "Stigma" was the means by which free citizens could agree on a mutually satisfactory code of behavior, without the agents of the state having to poke their noses into anyone's private business. Liberals, however, utterly reverse the equation—they're all for obliterating taboos, knocking down stigmas, shocking the middle class, and preaching tolerance for the most anti-social behavior; and then they turn around and act as the biggest advocates of the government dictating private behavior with the nanny state. The consequences? Greater government intrusion; much worse behavior.
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Friday, August 26, 2011
Protecting Canadian Children Tour, August 2011
Protecting Canadian Children
August 25, 2011
An area most Politicians care not to contribute to due to depth of emotion it ensues and controversy involved is that of children who fall under the realm of service recipients from Child & Youth Services. It is a topic so taboo that even those who profess to be Advocates sometimes remain silent; out of fear that Government funding to its organizations may be compromised. No matter how controversial the topic, it is one that must be examined for the well-being of vulnerable individuals and one that Politicians, the Media and the Public at large have a moral obligation to attend to.
Society finds itself in the "Sandwich Generation", with families caring for children as well as elderly members. Often, related health issues impose restrictions on families who bear extraordinary needs through the birth of a child with diversity, accident, disease or the natural aging process. None of us are infallible so each of us must be willing to address factors in the here and now on behalf of those without a voice lest we all become unable to advocate for ourselves in the future.
A harsh reality is the fact that we, Canadians, are gaining a notorious negative reputation for failing our most vulnerable. In Ontario, 83% of children who are recipients of Child Intervention Services, are those with special needs. In Alberta, the figure is 70% with similar statistics following across the Country. Instead of allocating resources to families directly, Governments are requesting the relinquishment of guardianship and out of home placements of children with extraordinary needs. FULL STORY
August 25, 2011
Society finds itself in the "Sandwich Generation", with families caring for children as well as elderly members. Often, related health issues impose restrictions on families who bear extraordinary needs through the birth of a child with diversity, accident, disease or the natural aging process. None of us are infallible so each of us must be willing to address factors in the here and now on behalf of those without a voice lest we all become unable to advocate for ourselves in the future.
A harsh reality is the fact that we, Canadians, are gaining a notorious negative reputation for failing our most vulnerable. In Ontario, 83% of children who are recipients of Child Intervention Services, are those with special needs. In Alberta, the figure is 70% with similar statistics following across the Country. Instead of allocating resources to families directly, Governments are requesting the relinquishment of guardianship and out of home placements of children with extraordinary needs. FULL STORY
Foster care in South Carolina: Three good Samaritans vs. one bad agency
Richard Wexler
Thursday, August 25, 2011
Foster care in South Carolina: Three good Samaritans vs. one bad agency
Sounds like a wonderful story of kind, caring people helping- really helping a grandmother and her grandchild.
Then CPS comes....
CWLA Children's Monitor wants no comments from AFRA
The CWLA Children's Monitor Blog doesn't want to hear from AFRA. They are moderating my submissions and are NOT approving them. This is called censorship. Why do you suppose they wouldn't want to hear from AFRA?
I do note this item in the right sidebar-
Federal employees, did you know CWLA is part of the Combined Federal Campaign? Our CFC number is 11125. Please consider designating CWLA as your CFC charity, and help us spread the word!So here's an operation running on federal funds, also taking funds from private donations, but not wanting to hear from the pubic.
A CFC contribution is just one of many ways to donate to CWLA. We appreciate your support to continue our work on behalf of children and families.
"Why did they devise censorship? To show a world which doesn’t exist, an ideal world, or what they envisaged as the ideal world. And we wanted to depict the world as it was." -- Krzysztof Kieslowski (1941-1996) Polish filmmaker
"A censor is a man who knows more than he thinks you ought to." -- Laurence J. Peter (1919-1990) American educator, "hierarchiologist", best known for the formulation of the 'Peter Principle' Source: Peter’s Quotations, 1977
PEW Releases its 50-State Home Visiting Assessment
aMinco | August 26, 2011 at 12:29 pm | URL: http://wp.me/p1zQ14-6j
This week The Pew Center on the States released a 50-state report on funding for voluntary home visiting programs. States and the New Federal Home Visiting Program: An Assessment from the Starting Line examines the scope and capacity of states to support evidence-based program models. The report also tracked the extent to which public expenditures are yielding expected outcomes for families and taxpayers. Finally, the report provides recommendations for policymakers investing in prevention programs that help strengthen families.
The report included five key findings:
They include:
It's pretty interesting that every time a supposedly neutral investigation is done into this Organized Crime Ring, they always come up woefully "inadequate". Perhaps some day the light bulbs are going to start coming on- "Hey! I don't think these agencies are doing anything close to helping families or children".
This week The Pew Center on the States released a 50-state report on funding for voluntary home visiting programs. States and the New Federal Home Visiting Program: An Assessment from the Starting Line examines the scope and capacity of states to support evidence-based program models. The report also tracked the extent to which public expenditures are yielding expected outcomes for families and taxpayers. Finally, the report provides recommendations for policymakers investing in prevention programs that help strengthen families.
The report included five key findings:
- Most home visiting funding was not adequately tracked at the state level.
- States frequently provided funding with few, if any, requirements that programs invest in models with a proven record of success.
- States did not adequately monitor publicly funded programs to ensure effectiveness.
- States did not consistently target at-risk families, where the return on investment is highest.
- In every state, far too few at-risk families got home visiting services.
They include:
- Require the tracking of all home visiting funds.
- Insist on—and invest in—programs with a foundation in research.
- Support and require programs to monitor performance and evaluate key outcomes.
- Set clear, evidence-based eligibility guidelines and develop systems to ensure compliance.
- Use the best available data about families to determine appropriate home visiting allocations and to establish a realistic plan for expansion.
It's pretty interesting that every time a supposedly neutral investigation is done into this Organized Crime Ring, they always come up woefully "inadequate". Perhaps some day the light bulbs are going to start coming on- "Hey! I don't think these agencies are doing anything close to helping families or children".
These Cuts Won't Heal
If you are really interested in the internal guts of the system we battle, here's information on the various programs and the FUNDING for those programs-
CWLA has launched the "These Cuts Won't Heal" campaign to ensure the concerns of vulnerable children are heard during the current federal budget debate. We encourage all children's advocates to be engaged in this debate. Here are a number of tools and resources for you to use.
CWLA has launched the "These Cuts Won't Heal" campaign to ensure the concerns of vulnerable children are heard during the current federal budget debate. We encourage all children's advocates to be engaged in this debate. Here are a number of tools and resources for you to use.
- Debt Limit Deal and Impact on CWLA Membership
- The Social Services Block Grant (SSBG)
- Federal Food Programs
- The Future of Medicaid and Child Welfare
- Comparison of FY2012 Administration Budget Proposal Compatibility Mode
- What Does a Medicaid Block Grant Mean for Children in Child Welfare
- Funding for Critical Programs in the Final FY 2011 CR
- Funding Chart Comparing the House FY11 Budget Bill (H.R. 1) to the Senate FY11 Budget Proposal
- H.R. 1: Summary of Cuts to Children's Programs and Expected Impact
- Fiscal Year 2011 House Budget Bill Summary (H.R. 1)
- Summary of President Obama's Budget Request for FY 2012
- Budget Chart for FY 2012: Funding Summary of Key Children's Programs
Leonard gets Spam
Subject: Do you really need your life?
Date: Fri, 26 Aug 2011 17:29:51 +0100
From: Justice
To: undisclosed-recipients:;
This is the only way I could contact you for now,I want you to be very careful about this and keep this secret with you until I make out space for us to see. You have no need of knowing who I am or where i am from.I know this may sound very surprising to you but it’s the situation.I have been paid some ransom in advance to terminate you with some reasons listed to me by my employer.It’s someone I believe you call a friend, I have followed you closely for a while now and have seen that you are innocent of the accusations leveled against you. Do not contact the police or try to send a copy of this to them,because if you do, I will know,and I might be pushed to do what I have been paid to do.Besides, this is the first time I turn out to be a betrayer in my job.I took pity on you and your kids... That is why I have made up my mind to help you if you are willing to help yourself.
Helper.
A long time ago, I bought The Complete Book of Dirty Tricks, and this spam utilizes some of the techniques that were in that book.
Just thought this would be handy info to know, in case you believe the shit in that email.
Date: Fri, 26 Aug 2011 17:29:51 +0100
From: Justice
To: undisclosed-recipients:;
This is the only way I could contact you for now,I want you to be very careful about this and keep this secret with you until I make out space for us to see. You have no need of knowing who I am or where i am from.I know this may sound very surprising to you but it’s the situation.I have been paid some ransom in advance to terminate you with some reasons listed to me by my employer.It’s someone I believe you call a friend, I have followed you closely for a while now and have seen that you are innocent of the accusations leveled against you. Do not contact the police or try to send a copy of this to them,because if you do, I will know,and I might be pushed to do what I have been paid to do.Besides, this is the first time I turn out to be a betrayer in my job.I took pity on you and your kids... That is why I have made up my mind to help you if you are willing to help yourself.
Helper.
A long time ago, I bought The Complete Book of Dirty Tricks, and this spam utilizes some of the techniques that were in that book.
Just thought this would be handy info to know, in case you believe the shit in that email.
A Call to Stand Up and Be a Voice for Our Nation’s Children
Posted on August 26, 2011 by YaMinco
CWLA Children's Monitor
The Congressional Children’s Caucus in conjunction with First Focus are hosting a kickoff event on September 14th to highlight the priorities for the remainder of the 112th Congress. Co-chairs Donald Manzullo (R-IL) and Sheila Jackson Lee (D-TX) recently sent a Dear Colleague to members of the House of Representatives, inviting them to the event, as well as extending an invitation to join the caucus. The goal of this year’s caucus is to build towards becoming a stronger voice for children. The co-chairs are planning various events to accomplish their goal and to highlight the issues impacting children today. CWLA supports the goals of the bipartisan Congressional Children’s Caucus and looks forward to working with its members to ensure that children and families remain a national priority.
http://childrensmonitor.wordpress.com/2011/08/26/a-call-to-stand-up-and-be-a-voice-for-our-nation’s-children/
I left a nice comment there (subject to moderation)-
I am willing to bet that nobody involved really cares a whit about the REAL problem with all this government "caring about children" business.
Business it is- BIG business. Families are fish in a bowl to be exploited by every Shark in the water, most egregiously CPS, the pharmaceutical companies, the colluding psychs, and the "judges" in the courts of absolutely NO Constitutional Due Process. Altogether defrauding the Social Security system for BILLION$, while leaving America's families looking like a clear-cut mountain or a strip mine.
See Best interest of the child- A new "Civil Right"-
http://familyrights.us/news/archive/2009/oct/best_interest.html
And What Happens in the FOG-
http://www.examiner.com/examiner/x-26520-Family-Rights-Examiner~y2009m10d15-The-CPS-case-What-happens-in-the-fog
But you don't care. Do you?
Leonard Henderson, co-founder
American Family Rights
http://familyrights.us
"Until Every Child Comes Home"©
"The Voice of America's Families"©
CWLA Children's Monitor
The Congressional Children’s Caucus in conjunction with First Focus are hosting a kickoff event on September 14th to highlight the priorities for the remainder of the 112th Congress. Co-chairs Donald Manzullo (R-IL) and Sheila Jackson Lee (D-TX) recently sent a Dear Colleague to members of the House of Representatives, inviting them to the event, as well as extending an invitation to join the caucus. The goal of this year’s caucus is to build towards becoming a stronger voice for children. The co-chairs are planning various events to accomplish their goal and to highlight the issues impacting children today. CWLA supports the goals of the bipartisan Congressional Children’s Caucus and looks forward to working with its members to ensure that children and families remain a national priority.
http://childrensmonitor.wordpress.com/2011/08/26/a-call-to-stand-up-and-be-a-voice-for-our-nation’s-children/
I left a nice comment there (subject to moderation)-
I am willing to bet that nobody involved really cares a whit about the REAL problem with all this government "caring about children" business.
Business it is- BIG business. Families are fish in a bowl to be exploited by every Shark in the water, most egregiously CPS, the pharmaceutical companies, the colluding psychs, and the "judges" in the courts of absolutely NO Constitutional Due Process. Altogether defrauding the Social Security system for BILLION$, while leaving America's families looking like a clear-cut mountain or a strip mine.
See Best interest of the child- A new "Civil Right"-
http://familyrights.us/news/archive/2009/oct/best_interest.html
And What Happens in the FOG-
http://www.examiner.com/examiner/x-26520-Family-Rights-Examiner~y2009m10d15-The-CPS-case-What-happens-in-the-fog
But you don't care. Do you?
Leonard Henderson, co-founder
American Family Rights
http://familyrights.us
"Until Every Child Comes Home"©
"The Voice of America's Families"©
Prosecutor says mom aware when baby pushed to fall
Aug 25, 5:29 PM EDT
Prosecutor says mom aware when baby pushed to fall
By AMY TAXIN and GILLIAN FLACCUS
Associated Press
SANTA ANA, Calif. (AP) -- A woman described by her husband as blinded by postpartum depression knew what she was doing when she drove their 7-month-old son to the fourth story of a parking garage and pushed him over the edge, prosecutors said Thursday.
Sonia Hermosillo's arraignment was delayed until Monday due to medical issues. The 31-year-old faces one count of murder and one count of assault on a child with force likely to produce great bodily injury resulting in death.
Prosecutors say the mother of three took her infant son to the garage at Children's Hospital of Orange County on Monday, removed a special helmet he wore for a medical condition and pushed him over the edge - then re-entered the building to validate her parking ticket before driving away.
"There are some facts to suggest she knew exactly what she was doing," said Scott Simmons, senior deputy district attorney.
Hermosillo was being held on $1 million bail. A call to her attorney, Chuck Hasse, not was immediately returned.
Hermosillo's husband Noe Medina had said his wife suffered from postpartum depression and did not know what she was doing. He said the couple had no problems during their 13-year-relationship until the birth of their son, who suffered from a condition that required him to wear a special helmet to reshape his head.
"There is no grudge against my wife. Don't judge her poorly.... She is truly ill," Medina said tearfully in his native Spanish on Wednesday, hours after his son died. "Understand the pain that I am in ... I lost my son and now I don't want to lose my wife. I have to keep going on for my two little girls."
Postpartum depression affects up to 20 percent of new mothers and can be triggered or worsened by stresses such as a traumatic childbirth experience, disabilities in the infant or an unsupportive home situation, experts said.
Most of these women have the "baby blues," a bout of depression that goes away within a few weeks, but a tiny fraction - about .01 percent - develop postpartum psychosis, said Stephanie Morales, a licensed marriage and family therapist who specializes in perinatal mood disorders.
Simmons said he expects Hermosillo's case will go to a jury trial. He said the mental state of the accused always plays a role in a homicide trial, but he has not prosecuted a case involving postpartum depression.
If convicted, Hermosillo could face a maximum sentence of 25 years to life, prosecutors said.
By all accounts, Hermosillo was a wonderful mother until the birth of Noe Medina Jr. this year.
The native of Mexico had two older daughters, ages 7 and 10, and she doted on them as a stay-at-home mother while her husband worked in construction, according to neighbors who knew her before she gave birth to her third child.
They said she was involved in her daughters' schooling and walked them to class in the family's working class La Habra neighborhood every day, although she spoke little English. When she learned she was expecting a son, she was excited, said Sonia Herrera, a neighbor whose daughter played with Hermosillo's children.
After the boy's birth, Hermosillo became withdrawn and serious, she said.
Medina said his wife was hospitalized for postpartum depression in June after she said she didn't want the boy. The baby had been diagnosed with congenital muscular torticollis - a twisting of the neck to one side - and wore a helmet to help correct his plagiocephaly, also known as flat-head syndrome, The Orange County Register reported.
Studies suggest that Hispanic women suffer from slightly higher rates of postpartum depression because many are first-generation immigrants and are removed from the social and cultural support systems that surround childbirth in many Latin American cultures, Morales said. A language barrier also prevents some immigrant women from getting help.
Hermosillo's husband said his wife took medication after her hospitalization and had seen a therapist for the first time on Monday. Later that day, she scooped up the baby while her husband was watching their daughters, and left their second-story apartment.
A panicked Medina called 911 to report his wife and son missing. La Habra police has declined to release that call, citing the pending investigation.
Authorities say she pushed the baby from the parking garage at the hospital, where he had been undergoing physical therapy twice a week. He didn't have an appointment that day.
A witness saw the baby falling through the air and several people called 911, said Sgt. Dan Adams, an Orange police spokesman.
Surveillance video showed Hermosillo's sport utility vehicle with an empty child seat leaving the parking structure a short time later, Adams said. The license plate was traced to the Hermosillo home, the sergeant said.
A police officer driving past Children's Hospital about four hours later spotted Hermosillo driving on a street about 100 yards from the crime scene and arrested her, Adams said.
Hermosillo has been put in a protective gown in the medical ward of the county jail so she cannot hurt herself and is on suicide watch, said Jim Amormino, a spokesman for the Orange County Sheriff's Department. He said she also has an immigration hold because authorities believe she is in the country illegally.
Hermosillo tried to enter the country at a San Diego border crossing using someone else's identity in 2006 and was turned away, said Lori Haley, a spokeswoman for Immigration and Customs Enforcement.
Women who have been through postpartum depression said they can understand Hermosillo's alleged actions through the lens of their own mental illness. Tiffany Benton, of San Jose, suffered postpartum depression after the birth of both of her children, now 8 and 11.
Benton, 39, said she would dream about pushing her infant in a stroller down a steep slope and letting go of the carriage. She said she was afraid to bathe her daughter because she didn't trust herself not to drown her.
Benton went three weeks without sleeping at one point and was hospitalized for two weeks after the birth of her younger child when she began hallucinating, she said.
Now healthy, Benton takes medication and goes to therapy, but she has cut her medicine dose in half and hopes to taper off completely with time.
"I was just a disaster emotionally. I felt like I was going crazy and I was having panic attacks," Benton recalled in a phone interview. "My husband had no clue what was going on. He was like, `Oh, you'll be fine tomorrow,' and I was like, `No, no, I won't.'"
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On the Web:
Post Partum International: http://www.postpartum.net/
I am a similar husband, and I am here to tell you that this is SCHIZOPHRENIA, not some minimalizing "Baby Blues". It happens when a woman's hormones start returning to "normal". And it gets worse with every birth.
The worst of it is, the medical profession and the mental illness professions are so heavy into looking for Domestic Violence, the first thing they think of is accuse the husband of CAUSING it.
OH, and the part about the husband calling 911- To them, this is a "missing person" case, and THEY WON'T START LOOKING FOR 24 HOURS. Been there, done that.
Prosecutor says mom aware when baby pushed to fall
By AMY TAXIN and GILLIAN FLACCUS
Associated Press
SANTA ANA, Calif. (AP) -- A woman described by her husband as blinded by postpartum depression knew what she was doing when she drove their 7-month-old son to the fourth story of a parking garage and pushed him over the edge, prosecutors said Thursday.
Sonia Hermosillo's arraignment was delayed until Monday due to medical issues. The 31-year-old faces one count of murder and one count of assault on a child with force likely to produce great bodily injury resulting in death.
Prosecutors say the mother of three took her infant son to the garage at Children's Hospital of Orange County on Monday, removed a special helmet he wore for a medical condition and pushed him over the edge - then re-entered the building to validate her parking ticket before driving away.
"There are some facts to suggest she knew exactly what she was doing," said Scott Simmons, senior deputy district attorney.
Hermosillo was being held on $1 million bail. A call to her attorney, Chuck Hasse, not was immediately returned.
Hermosillo's husband Noe Medina had said his wife suffered from postpartum depression and did not know what she was doing. He said the couple had no problems during their 13-year-relationship until the birth of their son, who suffered from a condition that required him to wear a special helmet to reshape his head.
"There is no grudge against my wife. Don't judge her poorly.... She is truly ill," Medina said tearfully in his native Spanish on Wednesday, hours after his son died. "Understand the pain that I am in ... I lost my son and now I don't want to lose my wife. I have to keep going on for my two little girls."
Postpartum depression affects up to 20 percent of new mothers and can be triggered or worsened by stresses such as a traumatic childbirth experience, disabilities in the infant or an unsupportive home situation, experts said.
Most of these women have the "baby blues," a bout of depression that goes away within a few weeks, but a tiny fraction - about .01 percent - develop postpartum psychosis, said Stephanie Morales, a licensed marriage and family therapist who specializes in perinatal mood disorders.
Simmons said he expects Hermosillo's case will go to a jury trial. He said the mental state of the accused always plays a role in a homicide trial, but he has not prosecuted a case involving postpartum depression.
If convicted, Hermosillo could face a maximum sentence of 25 years to life, prosecutors said.
By all accounts, Hermosillo was a wonderful mother until the birth of Noe Medina Jr. this year.
The native of Mexico had two older daughters, ages 7 and 10, and she doted on them as a stay-at-home mother while her husband worked in construction, according to neighbors who knew her before she gave birth to her third child.
They said she was involved in her daughters' schooling and walked them to class in the family's working class La Habra neighborhood every day, although she spoke little English. When she learned she was expecting a son, she was excited, said Sonia Herrera, a neighbor whose daughter played with Hermosillo's children.
After the boy's birth, Hermosillo became withdrawn and serious, she said.
Medina said his wife was hospitalized for postpartum depression in June after she said she didn't want the boy. The baby had been diagnosed with congenital muscular torticollis - a twisting of the neck to one side - and wore a helmet to help correct his plagiocephaly, also known as flat-head syndrome, The Orange County Register reported.
Studies suggest that Hispanic women suffer from slightly higher rates of postpartum depression because many are first-generation immigrants and are removed from the social and cultural support systems that surround childbirth in many Latin American cultures, Morales said. A language barrier also prevents some immigrant women from getting help.
Hermosillo's husband said his wife took medication after her hospitalization and had seen a therapist for the first time on Monday. Later that day, she scooped up the baby while her husband was watching their daughters, and left their second-story apartment.
A panicked Medina called 911 to report his wife and son missing. La Habra police has declined to release that call, citing the pending investigation.
Authorities say she pushed the baby from the parking garage at the hospital, where he had been undergoing physical therapy twice a week. He didn't have an appointment that day.
A witness saw the baby falling through the air and several people called 911, said Sgt. Dan Adams, an Orange police spokesman.
Surveillance video showed Hermosillo's sport utility vehicle with an empty child seat leaving the parking structure a short time later, Adams said. The license plate was traced to the Hermosillo home, the sergeant said.
A police officer driving past Children's Hospital about four hours later spotted Hermosillo driving on a street about 100 yards from the crime scene and arrested her, Adams said.
Hermosillo has been put in a protective gown in the medical ward of the county jail so she cannot hurt herself and is on suicide watch, said Jim Amormino, a spokesman for the Orange County Sheriff's Department. He said she also has an immigration hold because authorities believe she is in the country illegally.
Hermosillo tried to enter the country at a San Diego border crossing using someone else's identity in 2006 and was turned away, said Lori Haley, a spokeswoman for Immigration and Customs Enforcement.
Women who have been through postpartum depression said they can understand Hermosillo's alleged actions through the lens of their own mental illness. Tiffany Benton, of San Jose, suffered postpartum depression after the birth of both of her children, now 8 and 11.
Benton, 39, said she would dream about pushing her infant in a stroller down a steep slope and letting go of the carriage. She said she was afraid to bathe her daughter because she didn't trust herself not to drown her.
Benton went three weeks without sleeping at one point and was hospitalized for two weeks after the birth of her younger child when she began hallucinating, she said.
Now healthy, Benton takes medication and goes to therapy, but she has cut her medicine dose in half and hopes to taper off completely with time.
"I was just a disaster emotionally. I felt like I was going crazy and I was having panic attacks," Benton recalled in a phone interview. "My husband had no clue what was going on. He was like, `Oh, you'll be fine tomorrow,' and I was like, `No, no, I won't.'"
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On the Web:
Post Partum International: http://www.postpartum.net/
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I am a similar husband, and I am here to tell you that this is SCHIZOPHRENIA, not some minimalizing "Baby Blues". It happens when a woman's hormones start returning to "normal". And it gets worse with every birth.
The worst of it is, the medical profession and the mental illness professions are so heavy into looking for Domestic Violence, the first thing they think of is accuse the husband of CAUSING it.
OH, and the part about the husband calling 911- To them, this is a "missing person" case, and THEY WON'T START LOOKING FOR 24 HOURS. Been there, done that.
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